Options

When I found out I was pregnant, there was know other options that crossed mine or ether Billy's. I can't picture my life without James, for the parents who choose adoption, good job, and you guys are so strong... I don't have that strength in me. Abortion, well I'm not against it but its not my first choice. Once you become pregnant , you're body knows how to reproduce so finding a birth control that works for you is even more important. I swear by my Iud, there is some risks with it but the advantages weigh it out. My Iud is perfect because I don't need to worry about the pill ( I got pregnant on the pill ) and my Iud works for 4 more years and can come out whenever I ask. Some days pass by and I can't help but feel like there is a clock weighing down on me too have another baby.... Because I grew up as a only child and hated it, but when I think about it, ( and I mean reaaallllyyyyy think about it ) the timing is not right and I can wait 4 years or whenever Bill and I are ready.
There is so many support groups out there helping moms in general, and I went too one when I was pregnant and it helped me a lot for preparing for the baby, what to expect and just meeting other moms who understood me and what I was going thru.  You may feel alone out there, but you're not. We're all just fish in the ocean. We just gotta keep swimming.